Q: since you knw you hv a lot of haters, why do you think they hate or dislike you?
I'm not sure if I do have a lot of haters, but I assume it to be. Normally, the first impression I give to others is definitely bimbotic, ah lian-ish or act act kind of girl. & this is where I suppose a lot of people dislike. It's just a stereotype thinking that girls that like to dress up abit are like that, even though I don't go to school wearing super glamerous clothes or what, if you do know me, I'm a really scrimpy person.
For e.g, the first day of poly, I got to know this girl in my class and she thinks that she'll never be able to click with me, like siannzzxz her class got such ahlian, bimbo only. What about now? She's my best friend in poly!
Those haters out there don't know me. Not trying to say that I'm damn good if they know me or what, but I'm just who I'm. I speak what I think. Those people that don't appreciate me as a friend can just say whatever they want about me, because I don't care. I know my limits, I know what kind of person I'm, and that's all it takes. & I suppose this is why the good friends I have around me are those that know me well and are true friends I know I can rely on. They don't judge.
If I say I've never bought things online before, will you believe? I know it seems like a lie, but it's true. See? You've just judged me. The impression I give others doesn't means that's the person I really am.
Will I be affected by their(haters) presence? No. The true friends I've are enough to make me feel blissful. & honestly speaking, if there're any haters of me, I sympathise them. Hating someone is a tough thing. & I thank them for their energy used on me, and giving me so much of their attention. I don't hate them even if they hate me, it's just their way of thinking that's totally different from mine, I can't help it either :)
I also don't see the need to change myself just yet and do anything in order to make them like me, it's redundant. :D
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